evtchn: defer freeing struct evtchn's until evtchn_destroy_final()

evtchn: defer freeing struct evtchn's until evtchn_destroy_final()

notify_via_xen_event_channel() and free_xen_event_channel() had to
check if the domain was dying because they may be called while the
domain is being destroyed and the struct evtchn's are being freed.

By deferring the freeing of the struct evtchn's until all references
to the domain are dropped, these functions can rely on the channel
state being present and valid.

Signed-off-by: David Vrabel <david.vrabel@citrix.com>